"dont be jealous of others life, your time will comes". yet we all still feel like comparing our life to others even of our self unknowingly. the sad truth i believe happen to everyone . feeling insecure of other feels different once your entering adulthood. feeling insecure of your friends and people around you have a good academic records, having better life ,secured job and financially stabled. well almost everything . have you ever think of why people get more than you , how luckier your friends are. oh well cherish yourself because youre not alone.

almost all living soul will find this kind of feeling bother them more than everything. well some of the internet people had holler their opinion about his kind of thing and the content i cherish the most is about relating the insecure or jealousy with one word - perspective.
well this makes sense if you listen to the whole content (ill pin the link down below) .we usually think of life as competing with others. we need to be as wealthy as others, beautiful, flawless, problem-less and so much we demand a perfect life even we all said all the time we're not perfect and cannot be one . the best thing to do is cherish your gifts more than giving attention to your flaws. well i assert we all agree that being able to cherish what we had in life without thinking other having all the way more better and so much more is not as easy as talking about it.

me, myself havent able to make myself familiar with all kind of tips from experienced and religious  people said  even listening to the content thousands time . we apparently can listen and giving advice to people exactly how other people did to us. but when the real situation comes , not all people being able to actually adapt and use all the things,. at the crucial moment it may be not possible.

what happen to me past few day have thought me a lot of things .like i said before, we do cherish everything when we starts changing our perspective.  esp about life.

we are all envious of people having a nice job or having a simple jobs but the pay is mountain-high. but little did we know how they actually go through to be in the place they're now. some of us may labeled them with "lucky" but actually it is your perspective . you may be envious because you see from the point the pay is high and the job scope is so much little compared to yours . but do you know the dark side of it? the pressure they feel?  problem they had that never cross your mind before ? well if you know you will be more grateful for sure..

so all this kind of "perspective" thing had make me feels so much better  when i hit my ground . i had been through a lot of thing past few week and one of it is during my test last week. i do practice all sort of things and i can confidently said that i am good enough to do it well... at least .. but what actually happen hits me hard . im also surprised at myself. not being able to do well in the subject you had practiced well the feels hit me so hard . starts question myself how this thing happen ,well surprisingly i do question Allah the Great why this this happen too .(nauzubillah i hope this thing never happen again) well some people words had me think about i all over again . how can you get mad and question your god for one things that not going well . how about the other 3 tests you did almost very well ? who give you the easiness? oh well i start question that . thinking it all over again make me feel relieve and come to think " other people may had enormous troubles compared to me ". i may  feels unfair at first but i come to think  that my god had grants a lot of wish and shower me with gifts even you're not that good and did all his wants. well that make me want to shed tears .... for real


i simply thought  even a small things happen in our life actually have a very GREAT reason ! our life is perfect enough because the "perfect" is the one who create our stories ! perfect is subjective. but remember , every dogs have its day ! lets success in out life fi dunya wa akhirat insyaAllah :')

"live your life , stop comparing w others"
"you will be happy in your very own way"

my two cent of life

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